you can however continue getting trashed at husband's work events and gesticulating wildly as you discuss how your field, for all its objectivity and data and fanciness and science, actually aspires to be like husband's field, because aba is a system of rules and clear rewards whereas video games are a system of rules and rewards that people engage in voluntarily and my field would love for people to engage in it voluntarily.
the 30 seconds you did that went very well.
continue.